Love, Life and everything in between 

Why do things have to be so complicated? Especially feelings.

I have never understood the rules of dating or relationships, I just more or less go with the flow, but even the flow stops flowing sometimes.

I see relationships everyday that I envy, I see some that I just feel like slapping some sense into the couple, I see some that are so wrong for each other but manage to make it work, I see some that want space from each other all the time but are still together, some that are always together but still got trust issues.

Do manuals and books really get it down right? I am no judge but there is no definite pattern to relationships I have seen and yet, some people still follow the book.

Personally, I think we have the types of people we are each attracted to but are they our soulmates? Does the law of attraction say anything as to being with your ‘attractionee’ forever? Because if it does, I have definitely missed my way in all this.

You meet someone today and immediately start matching their surname with yours then realise you are getting desperate or crazy or both.

You begin to get scared of being alone for the rest of your life because you are not doing things the way people say you ought to. You think no one would love you because you already think of yourself of being ‘hard to love’, with too many issues that maybe nobody would understand you or take you as you are.

Do you know who you really are? Do you love yourself for who you are? Are you in love with yourself despite your issues? Because guess what, everybody’s got issues and if you don’t find yourself and love yourself, you would never truly let anybody in.

Too many thoughts in my head and I think maybe I’m too young to understand Love and Life and everything in between. Maybe if I allow myself grow into the kind of person I aspire to be, then I can begin to comprehend what the Law of attraction and Love itself entails.

Maybe, just maybe. 😐😐😐

LoveandKisses From TANG.

0 thoughts on “Love, Life and everything in between 

  1. We probably need to love ourselves first and find true inner peace.
    How can you honestly love another when you don’t even love yourself?

  2. We just get caught up in somethings, I think about this alot and one thing I discovered along the line is that there’s a huge gap between being in love and having passion for someone. The two could work together but most of us women/ladies misunderstand this and start fantasizing about things that can’t be. I’ve been through this and I can relate. I love myself very much but most times it seem like selfishness or being self centred. @oab sonde. Only God can really answer alot of our questions, I’m not trying to be spiritual now but it’s the truth. LOL

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